Today was a lovely 25 Celsius, which means… it was hot. I write this soon after reading that my real Mom back home is using her furnace nearly every night now. I am not envious of this. Apparently the weather in Paraguay comes in waves. It starts cool and warms a bit each day until it’s oppressive then it rains and cools down again. We’re on a warming trend until Wednesday. Luckily I love the heat and will take oppressive heat over cold any day.
Peace Corps Paraguay
Family Day
Day Three… A Humble Reminder
I’ve decided that learning a new language is incredibly humbling. A communication barrier like this quickly makes an otherwise intelligent woman feel like a toddler, both of whom resort to hand gestures and occasional verbal babbling when the correct word escapes them. However, I’m proud to say that, unlike a toddler, I replace tantrums with a smile and a laugh at myself ;). My family is not afraid to laugh at me either so we all try to have a good time with it. There are moments though when one of us is really trying to make a point and it just doesn’t happen, despite use of the dictionary which has become a permanent fixture at my side. I learned never to leave my room without it! haha
Ok, I’ve got to run, get some breakfast and do some homework for class tomorrow. I hope that you enjoy learning about Paraguay along with me. Thanks for your thoughts and support! xoxo
Settling In
Ok. So tonight I have more leisure to write. Last night I had two very curious kids watching over my shoulder and asking questions about everything in my luggage. It was too cute.
I´m fortunate to live with a host family that has most amenities including a great hot water shower, massive kitchen (seriously the size of something you´d find in a 1500s castle…we could fit 50 people in there!), washing machine, electricity, and internet! Imagine my surprise! The walls are concrete and floors are brick. Everything here is made of concrete or bricks, which are red from the rust colored soil. None of the houses have central heat or AC and, because they are not insulated, they are also not sound proof in any way.
It has been very windy since I arrived with temps in the high 60s to low 70s and I have worn long sleeves everyday.
Today my host family brought me to a Paraguayan wedding. The bride is my host Mom´s sister (age 82!) and the groom is 85! They have lived together for 60 years and decided it was time to make it official. It was the cutest thing and no expense was spared. In fact it was very much like weddings in the US without dancing and drinking. The live entertainment included a winner from the Paraguayan version of American Idol, 2 harpists, and a Mariachi band. To prepare for the wedding my host family cooked all day yesterday and this morning, creating mountains of food including corn bread (pan de maiz) cooked in a tatakua (outdoor cave-like clay oven) in the barn, lasagnas, rice salads, bean salads, green salads, and more. On the way to the wedding we had to stop for a herd of cattle crossing the road. No rancher was herding them, they were just meandering aimlessly. This, apparently, is common. Once at the wedding, every newcomer greeted me as if I was part of the family, no questions asked. They didn´t even need to know my name to warrant a hug and the traditional double-cheek kiss. However, they were all fascinated with my blue eyes and the ´girl´ from North America quickly becames the topic of conversation and everyone wanted a picture of my eyes! I think many of them had never seen blue eyes before.
My host family is taking good care of me and I feel quite safe here so far, though I haven´t yet had to venture anywhere by myself. My nearest fellow volunteer is just a couple doors down the street.
Will write again soon.
Arrived Safe and Sound
Hola, amigos! I have landed safely in Paraguay and am spending my first night with my host family. They live in a large home in the country and have an active farm. We have ducks meandering through the kitchen, baby chicks being warmed in a towel next to a boiling pot on the stove, cows and chickens out the backdoor and animals of every type in every direction. Host mom runs a couple businesses out of the house and it seems perhaps extended family lives here too though I´m not yet sure. Tonight my family invited me to watched while host Dad killed a rooster for a wedding tomorrow in Ascuncion, which I´m invited to. They´ve been incredibly patient with my remedial Spanish and even more elementary guarani, the native tongue which everyone in Paraguay speaks. My guarani language classes are being taught by Spanish speaking teachers so it gets very interesting. All good. My classmates are an amazing group of individuals, nearly all of whom are under 25 but have traveled the globe extensively providing for great storytelling.
Gotta go!